So what happens when the message you have been sending changes. When you go from one extreme to another in the feelings, thoughts, and words you are expressing. Whether it be from negative to positive, or positive to negative.
Do you count those who leave you as never having been true friends to begin with?
Or do you count those who leave you as existing on another level, in a different path, as what you are on?
And what feelings and thoughts does that bring up for you?